Start the changes within youself~
Quite often we forget, all kind of changes in our life whether positive or negative, starts from ourselves.
It’s pretty obvious all people’s life is a struggle and suffering. Struggle and suffering according to their capacity to bear it and cope with it.
Moreover, we tend to forget, or sometimes ignore that we have a colossal power within which enables us to fight or withstand the calamity that strikes us.
Nevertheless, why we tend forget and ignore that power?
Because… It is difficult.
- Because it’s difficult. Yes! It’s not easy to unleash that power. You need to strive to make things work out.
- You need to come out of your comfort zone. HOW? Let me just give a few basic examples:
- Would you give up your sleep – if you love to sleep?
- Would you give up your Netflix – if you love to watch in your spare time?
- Would you give up your smoking habits (any sort of unhealthy habits) – if you love them?
- Are you ready to come out from fear: fear of failure, fear of people’s critics, etc.
- Are you ready to discipline yourself: wake up early morning, do sport, learn and study, think positively at all times, expand your networks, etc.
It is EASY…
The reason why we fall or allow ourselves to fall because we choose the easy side…
It is easy just to give up and not to do anything.
Furthermore, it is easy to blame others, or the circumstances or the situations. Because it will withdraw all the responsibilities from our shoulders.
In order to sum up the best solution, I would like to quote the words of Jordan Peterson.
Pick up your responsibilities and bear it. Carry the heaviest one. Stay solid, so that people can rely on you.
Jordan Peterson, Ph.D.
You do something out of nothing…
Jordan Peterson (Canadian Psychologist) highlights the Responsibility ofttimes.
The responsibility which we are obliged to and which are volunteered to.
“Its okay to not be in a very good place, if what you’re trying to do with that not very good place – is make it better. In fact, that things aren’t exactly the way they should be – at least gives you something to do. Or maybe something great to do” – Jordan Peterson
Jordan Peterson states very simple and profound advice. That is, it is okay to feel uncomfortable at the beginning of a journey and it is also okay if your expectations didn’t meet the reality. What is the best outcome out of it – you do something, out of nothing.
As you embark on the path for changes of yourself, you will encounter different states of challenges; all sorts of chaos, distress; difficulty; loss, and confusion.
So, what we’ve got to do?
Acknowledge it – bear it – carry it, and overcome it.
This is part of life. A life with up and down rainbows.
Start the change within…
Comparatively, changes start from doing something. Through the experience of doing something, you may develop into a great thing.
A great thing is undeniably is a result that serves you primarily for the best benefit and interest. Consecutively serves your community for a better life.
And this is the ULTIMATE achievement.
This is the ABSOLUTE accomplishment.
